Ease depression by gardening
Depression has been a part of my life for some years now. It can manifest itself in a number of ways.
For those of you who have ever suffered from depression or know of someone who has this illness then you will know how debilitating it can be.
As for myself, I can only describe it as a heavy dark cloud that hovers over me, following me around as I try to get on with my day.
I have good days where I can push the cloud away and see beautiful blue sky above me, I feel positive and find silver linings in the little things.
I try to hold onto those days because they can be few and far between. Some days I wake up and my glass is half empty before I lift the duvet.
The glass can be running dry by mid-morning if it’s a really bad day, and I can still have another 10 hours or so to go before the end of my day.
I have learnt that that is just how depression rolls!
Fighting depression with nature
The reason I have chosen to write this post is that unfortunately depression and mental health is still quite a taboo subject.
It took me a long time to speak to my doctor, family and friends about how I was feeling and my depression. I was worried what they would think of me.
For anyone reading this post who finds themselves feeling like they can relate to this I urge you to speak to someone, anyone that you feel you can open up to in confidence.
I have been very fortunate in that my loved ones have been incredibly supportive. Things feel that little bit easier with it being out in the open.
What has this got to do with gardening?
Well actually …….everything, for me anyway.
After speaking out and seeking professional help I actually felt quite lost for a time, not knowing how to heal myself.
It’s not like putting a plaster on a wound knowing that in time the wound will heal.
Where did I go from here? How could I help myself? What did depression mean for me and my life?
I started taking small steps, one day at a time looking for things that I found happiness in by taking it all back to basics and listening to my heart.
My best mental state was when outdoors, breathing in
I would go for walks but made sure I was out of the hustle and bustle of everyday life.
Heading towards trees, fields, flowers and birdsong.
I’d try and still my mind and focus only on what I could hear around me.
The wind, leaves rustling, birds singing etc.
Taking time to appreciate all I could see the grass, the flowers the sky etc.
I realised that I craved this environment more and more as a way of escapism from depression.
It helped me to be more positive because I was able to take time to notice all these things that actually made me happy and peaceful.
I was able to find a way of using this to control my negative mindset.
I needed to try and keep this feeling close to me so that I could reach for it when I needed to.
Sitting in my back garden one day, I closed my eyes.
It was a bad day for me, the black cloud hung heavy in my sky.
It was something to focus my attention on that I associated with calmness.
I opened my eyes and saw my green grass and as I breathed in a calmness washed over me.
I knew then that I had everything I needed right there, a place I could escape to, where I could create my own church with mother nature as my guide.
How gardening can help with depression
This is where gardening comes into play.
I still have bad days, good days and ok days but I cannot recommend highly enough how much the outdoors have helped me and my depression.
There are many obvious benefits that gardening can offer such as exercise, fresh air and good old vitamin D.
Not forgetting the many other positive things that this past time can offer the mind.
Helping you to actually get outdoors, knowing that your plants need watering and therefore having a reason to be more active.
Filling your bird feeders because the birds are relying on you.
The sense of achievement that gardening can give you is immense.Gardening Love
When you have planted a seed, watered it, cared for it and that little green shoot pops out of the soil !! wow ….. you did that!
We are all so wrapped up in modern day life
Rushing from A to B and back again. We all need a thing that helps us to unwind…. slow down and switch off.
If only one person reads this post and they take something positive from it then it will have served its purpose.
Whether you too have depression or any other mental health illness.
Or if you just need a way of chilling out, get outside, give it a go.
It doesn’t matter whether you have gardened before or if you only have the outdoor space for one plant pot. It’s about trying. Just plant a seed and watch it grow.
Thanks for reading folks. I would love it if you could share the post on your social media accounts.
For more information about depression, I recommend checking out the Mental Health Foundation website, which is full of help and support.
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